Is a small penis the new turn on?

March 12, 2010

In the world of sexual information exchange we are privileged to be oversaturated with that information. One of the more interesting topics that is constantly popping up is that perhaps having a small penis is now more of a turn on than having a large penis. We spent some time researching this and our finds were very surprising.

First of all, we realized that the answer to our quest was not a simple yes or no. The answer depended on several factors including ability to maintain a hard erection, technique with the penis, technique with things other than a penis, and physical appeal.

- The ability to maintain a hard erection

The ability to maintain a hard erection was in fact the most commonly expressed concern among the women. One even said: "Above all, the most important thing is a guy that can get and hold that hard erection, because if everything else isn’t good you can still have a decent time, but if he can’t get it hard then everything is over."

So what can you do to make sure that this disastrous inability never threatens you? Unfortunately in today’s culture phrases such as male enhancement or penis enlargement instantly bring up negative thoughts such as scam, fake, SPAM, hazardous, or a smiling Bob. This, of course, is due to the fact that so much weight is placed on sexual function and ability in our culture that it has caused us to think that sex is one of the most important things out there. Which in effect created a need for products that would "instantly" fix the sexual problems that we believe we have. The end result is that several companies were created that exploit this need and we, the disillusioned consumers, now believe that all products of this nature are, as I mentioned earlier, a fake.

There are things that you can do of course. Quit smoking tobacco. If you haven’t heard by now of how horrible cigarettes are for you, than you’ve been living in a vault. Quit smoking weed and all of that other stuff. Perhaps get trashed on the weekend instead of everyday. You can then step it up a notch and do other stuff like going to the gym, skip the bacon and extra mayo, and maybe even penis exercises, such as jelqing or Keggels. Lastly I still say that a well-researched male enhancement product can do wonders to increase the blood flow to your penis to allow for those hard erections.

- Technique with the penis

Yes I will use an old cliché: "It’s not the size of the boat, but the motion in the ocean." The best thing here is to watch her, specifically watch her reactions to what you’re doing. For some of these things it helps to have a steady partner for you to practice with, and so it won’t be so embarrassing if you screw it up.

One thing that most women should enjoy is to make sure that you are stimulating their clitoris with your body while you are inside of her. This generally means that there is more skin to skin contact, but as long as you’re not a sweaty pig, that’s generally not a problem for them.

Another thing that’s important is the pace…this is generally the difficult part, because we get selfish…for the most part a lady is more stimulated at a slower pace than men, which is even better because hopefully it means you will last long enough to please her this time. If you feel like you’re humping like jack rabbits, than you’re probably going too fast, in other words you’re being selfish.

Lastly I’ll mention the force of your hump, sometimes it’s a turn on to be rough, and at other times being rough isn’t as exciting for her as being more intimate. This is one of those that just depends on the mood, and if you’re into making her moan then hopefully you will let her pick the mood.

- Technique with things other than a penis

Your ability with your fingers and tongue can be one of the more exciting things in your life. If you can get her to orgasm pretty much every time you make love, than your life in general will be a lot happier. The most common concern that we hear is that guys with big penises tend to be more selfish. This is great news for us because those of us with smaller members are more driven to find alternative ways to satisfy our partner. Our recommendation are a couple of books, "Idiot’s Guide to Sensual Massage" and "Low Down on Going Down" as both are excellent sources for REALLY enhancing your sexual life.

Another thing to mention here is your preparation prior to sex. Bringing flowers home or have them delivered to her office, cooking dinner or going out for dinner, and other stuff like that.

Finally I will mention praising her and praising her often. This, by far, will determine the happiness of not only your sex life, but your relationship in general. Find ways to praise her but only praise her for something she did, things that are worthy of praise, and be as specific as possible. You would NOT say "Hey I like how you dressed today." You would perhaps say, "Wow, I love how that blouse looks on you, you should wear it more often" or "I love it when you wear those panties, it really turns me on." You get the idea, just make sure it is NOT fake.

- Physical appeal

The last thing we will discuss is how physically appealing you are to her. This is just the basics, guys. Did you take a shower before or are you still sweaty, dirty and stink from the course of the day? Have you tried shaving your pubic hairs? This one can be a turn on for many women, and it also makes your penis look bigger. And yes in the end physical size does play a role, a man with a bigger penis will automatically make a girl hornier verses someone who is smaller. There are not as many options to fix this concern. Again a well-researched penis enlargement product may increase your size. You will find that most of these products will increase girth over length however girth is generally more important anyways. In our research we have found that penis exercises or certain pills may help you here, just stay away from crazy stuff like penis enlargement surgery or weights.

In the end we have found that having a bigger penis when size is the only thing measured is more exciting for your partner than the guy who has a smaller penis, however when taking into account everything, then penis size becomes much less important. In other words if you can satisfy your woman sexually, then penis size is almost irrelevant. So use that information to learn the skills needed and do all of those things that will get your partner into sexual bliss that she hasn’t even imagined possible. And don’t do it just that once or on special occasions. Imagine how happy she would be if you took her to that bliss every day or maybe even more than once per day.

About The Author
Serj Sagan is the CEO and owner of a Male Enhancement Pills company, Male Enhancement Research. Dedicated to find the real truth about male enhancement products and companies and expose it to the consumer. Copyright 2008 Serj Sagan of http://www.enhancementresearch.com. This article may be freely distributed if this resource box stays attached.

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